Saturday, November 22, 2014

Daughters of the Covenant - HP Lesson - October 2014

Daughters in the Covenant

BY PRESIDENT HENRY B. EYRING


Introduction

Learner Readiness  (can you feel so now)

SAY: The path … we must take on our journey back to our Heavenly Father … is marked by sacred covenants with God.

SAY: Before we start into the President Eyring's conference talk let's review the fundamentals about covenants.

Q: What does the word covenant mean?
Q: What is the purpose of God covenanting with man and man with God?
Q: What are our covenants designed to do?
Q: Is there a progression in the covenants we make?
Q: What happens when we fully keep one of our covenants?
Q: What are some of the covenants that we make and what are the blessings associated with each covenant?

SAY:  Let's read a quotation from President Eyring's talk.

READ A - Daughters in the Covenant

A - I will speak tonight about the path—which in such beautiful ways has been described today—that we must take on our journey back to our Heavenly Father. That path is marked by sacred covenants with God. I will talk with you about the joy of making and keeping those covenants and helping others keep them.

Q: Why is there joy of making and keeping covenants?  Isn't it a burden to keep on having to do better?

READ B - Daughters in the Covenant

B - No two of us will have the same memories of the day when we made that sacred baptismal covenant and received the gift of the Holy Ghost. But we each felt God’s approval. And we felt a desire to forgive and to be forgiven and an increased determination to do right... How deeply those feelings went down into your heart was determined largely by the way you were prepared by loving people.

Q: Why does President Eyring tie one's baptism to desires and feelings?
Q: Where can we renew these desires and feelings?  (sacrament, temple, attending baptisms, fasting and prayer)

READ C - Alma 5:26

C - Alma 5:26 And now behold, I say unto you, my brethren, if ye have experienced a change of heart, and if ye have felt to sing the song of redeeming love, I would ask, can ye feel so now?

Q: Why is it important to feel so now?
Q: What is relationship between keeping our covenants and feeling the joy the gospel brings?
Q: Can any of you describe this joy?
Q: What keeps these feelings of alive within us?

Leaner Involvement (what stops us from feeling so now)

SAY: While reading last month's conference addresses I was impressed by the talk given by Elder Ballard.  Let's read and excerpt.

READ D

D - Elder M. Russell Ballard, Stay on the Boat and Hold On!

Given the challenges we all face today, how do we stay on the Old Ship Zion?

Here is how. We need to experience a continuing conversion by increasing our faith in Jesus Christ and our faithfulness to His gospel throughout our lives—not just once but regularly.

Q: What does experiencing a continuing conversion mean?
Q: How does a continuing conversion relate to feeling to sing the song of redeeming love?
Q: Regarding the covenants we all have made, what can happen if we don't experience a continuing conversion by increasing our faith?

Q: What stops us from feeling so now?

Q: If we are in a place where our testimonies aren't so bright, what could we do?

READ E

E - Elder M. Russell Ballard, Stay on the Boat and Hold On!

The important questions focus on what matters most—Heavenly Father’s plan and the Savior’s Atonement. Our search should lead us to become kind, gentle, loving, forgiving, patient, and dedicated disciples.

Q: Why does focus on our Heavenly Father;s plan and the Savior's atonement matter the most?
Q:  How doe we know that our search has been fruitful?

Learner Application (what can we do to feel stay connected

What behavior do we exhibit when we are all filled with the love of God?

SAY:  President Eyring uses this passage of scripture to describe a group of people who felt that joy and desired to covenant with their God

READ F - Mosiah 18:8–11.

F - Mosiah 18:8–11. Quotation by President Eyring, Daughters in the Covenant

“And it came to pass that he said unto them: Behold, here are the waters of Mormon (for thus were they called) and now, as ye are desirous to come into the fold of God, and to be called his people, and are willing to bear one another’s burdens, that they may be light;

“Yea, and are willing to mourn with those that mourn; yea, and comfort those that stand in need of comfort, and to stand as witnesses of God at all times and in all things, and in all places that ye may be in, even until death, that ye may be redeemed of God, and be numbered with those of the first resurrection that ye may have eternal life—

“Now I say unto you, if this be the desire of your hearts, what have you against being baptized in the name of the Lord, as a witness before him that ye have entered into a covenant with him, that ye will serve him and keep his commandments, that he may pour out his Spirit more abundantly upon you?

“And now when the people had heard these words, they clapped their hands for joy, and exclaimed: This is the desire of our hearts.”

SAY: This is an introspective question: Are these the desires or our heart?  If they have been in our memories in the past, can you feel so now?

READ G -  Elder M. Russell Ballard, Stay on the Boat and Hold On!

G - Elder M. Russell Ballard, Stay on the Boat and Hold On!

To bear another’s burdens includes helping, supporting, and understanding everyone, including the sick, the infirm, the poor in spirit and body, the seeker and the troubled, and also other member-disciples—including Church leaders who have been called by the Lord to serve for a season.

Q: Anything pop out that you previously hadn't though of?
Q: How do we bear another's burden who is seeking at this time or trouble at this time?
Q: Do we get defense or angry?

Conclusion

As President Eyring said, making and keeping covenant should be a joyful process.  As Elder Ballard says, We need to experience a continuing conversion by increasing our faith in Jesus Christ and our faithfulness to His gospel throughout our lives—not just once but regularly.

I testify that these things are true.

Elder Ballard says this:

Elder M. Russell Ballard, Stay on the Boat and Hold On!

We need to become like the sons of Mosiah, who “waxed strong in the knowledge of the truth.” We can become men and women “of a sound understanding.” This can be accomplished only by our “search[ing] the scriptures diligently, that [we] might know the word of God.”7

In searching the scriptures and the words of past and current apostles and prophets, we should focus on studying, living, and loving the doctrine of Christ.

Thursday, November 6, 2014

Decisions for Eternity
By Elder Russell M. Nelson Of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles

The wise use of your freedom to make your own decisions is crucial to your spiritual growth, now and for eternity.

Learner Readiness

BOARD: Decisions for Eternity  and CHANGE

Say: as I was thinking about Elder Nelson's talk on our freedom to make our own decisions, I remembered a quote from Joseph Smith.

READ A

READING A - I am like a huge, rough stone rolling down from a high mountain; and the only polishing I get is when some corner gets rubbed off by coming in contact with something else, striking with accelerated force against religious bigotry, priest-craft, lawyer-craft, doctor-craft, lying editors, suborned judges and jurors, and the authority of perjured executives, backed by mobs, blasphemers, licentious and corrupt men and women—all hell knocking off a corner here and a corner there. Thus I will become a smooth and polished shaft in the quiver of the Almighty. (History of the Church, 5:401.)

Q: How do we become polish shafts it the quiver of the Almighty? [just be thinking about this]

Q: Does this quote about Joseph Smith have anything to do with decisions for eternity?

I also thought of a talk by Elder Bednar.  I felt that it applied to topic, Decisions for Eternity.

READ B

READING B - The grand objective of the Savior’s gospel was summarized succinctly by President David O. McKay (1873–1970): “The purpose of the gospel is … to make bad men good and good men better, and to change human nature.” Thus, the journey of mortality is to progress from bad to good to better and to experience the mighty change of heart—to have our fallen natures changed (see Mosiah 5:2).

Q: What does this quote have to do with our freedom to make your own decisions for our spiritual growth?

Let's read a quote from Elder Nelson:

READ C

READING C - The wise use of your freedom to make your own decisions is crucial to your spiritual growth, now and for eternity. You are never too young to learn, never too old to change.

READ D

READING D -The aging process is also a gift from God, as is death. The eventual death of your mortal body is essential to God’s great plan of happiness. Why? Because death will allow your spirit to return home to Him. From an eternal perspective, death is only premature for those who are not prepared to meet God.

Some of the decisions that will determine your eternal destiny include:

• How will you choose to care for and use your body?

• What spiritual attributes will you choose to develop?

Learner Involvement

Say, So, we are back to decision and choice.

Q: What spiritual attributes do you still need to develop? [list on the board]

SAY, let's read another quote from Elder Nelson.  He lists some spiritual attributes: [add them to the board]

READ E

READING E  -Your Heavenly Father has known you for a very long time. You, as His son or daughter, were chosen by Him to come to earth at this precise time, to be a leader in His great work on earth. You were chosen not for your bodily characteristics but for your spiritual attributes, such as bravery, courage, integrity of heart, a thirst for truth, a hunger for wisdom, and a desire to serve others.

Q: It is easy to talk about all the good attributes that we need to develop in this live.  It's another thing to actually develop them.  How do we make the changes in ourselves? 

READ F

READING F -A pivotal spiritual attribute is that of self-mastery—the strength to place reason over appetite. Self-mastery builds a strong conscience. And your conscience determines your moral responses in difficult, tempting, and trying situations. Fasting helps your spirit to develop dominance over your physical appetites.

Q:  Why does self mastery build a strong conscience?

Q: Why is it important to have strong self conscience?

READ G

READING G - We can change our behavior. Our very desires can change. How? There is only one way. True change—permanent change—can come only through the healing, cleansing, and enabling power of the Atonement of Jesus Christ. He loves you—each of you! He allows you to access His power as you keep His commandments, eagerly, earnestly, and exactly. It is that simple and certain. The gospel of Jesus Christ is a gospel of change!

Q: Why does true change require the power of the atonement?

SAY - I would like to read a few quote from Elder Bednar's talk to help us with this;

READ H

READING H -The Book of Mormon is our handbook of instructions as we travel the pathway from bad to good to better and strive to have our hearts changed. King Benjamin teaches about the journey of mortality and the role of the Atonement in navigating successfully that journey: “For the natural man is an enemy to God, and has been from the fall of Adam, and will be, forever and ever, unless he yields to the enticings of the Holy Spirit, and putteth off the natural man and becometh a saint through the atonement of Christ the Lord” (Mosiah 3:19; emphasis added).

SAY - So first we need to put off the natural man.  [in Moroni, this is called denying ourselves all ungodliness] Let's read the second quote:

READ I

READING I - I draw your attention to two specific phrases. First—“putteth off the natural man.” The journey from bad to good is the process of putting off the natural man or the natural woman in each of us. In mortality we all are tempted by the flesh. The very elements out of which our bodies were created are by nature fallen and ever subject to the pull of sin, corruption, and death. But we can increase our capacity to overcome the desires of the flesh and temptations “through the atonement of Christ.” When we make mistakes, as we transgress and sin, we can repent and become clean through the redeeming power of the Atonement of Jesus Christ.

SAY - and the we become saints.

READ J

READING J     Second—“becometh a saint.” This phrase describes the continuation and second phase of life’s journey to make “good men better” or, in other words, to become more like a saint. This second part of the journey, this process of going from good to better, is a topic about which we do not study or teach frequently enough nor understand adequately.

Learner Application

Q: Why do you think Elder Bednar says that we do not study or teach this topic frequently enough not understand it adequately?  Why don't we teach it? [we don't understand it, it hasn't happened in our lives - becoming a saint].

READ K

READING K - I am not so sure, however, that we know and understand that the Atonement is also for saints—for good men and women who are obedient, worthy, and conscientious and who are striving to become better and serve more faithfully. We may mistakenly believe we must make the journey from good to better and become a saint all by ourselves, through sheer grit, willpower, and discipline, and with our obviously limited capacities

Q: Why is this approach incorrect?
Q: Have you had experience in changing a bad habit to a good habit?  What did it involve?
SAY: Here's an idea: focus on one goal at at time.  Ask God for assistance in discerning what that one goal is.

Q:  How do we develop an attribute or character trait that we don't currently have?

SAY: Here's a few things that I am working on:

Self mastery over judging others
Self mastery over contending
Self mastery over reviling
Self mastery over pride

Conclusion

READ L

READING L -You and I in a moment of weakness may cry out, “No one understands.No one knows.” No human being, perhaps, knows. But the Son of God perfectly knows and understands, for He felt and bore our burdens before we ever did. And because He paid the ultimate price and bore that burden, He has perfect empathy and can extend to us His arm of mercy in so many phases of our life. He can reach out, touch, succor—literally run to us—and strengthen us to be more than we could ever be and help us to do that which we could never do through relying upon only our own power.

Q: Do you believe God Knows who you are? Do you believe that God cares about you personally?  If not, what would allow you to believe that?

READ M

READING M -Why the need for self-mastery? God implanted strong appetites within us for nourishment and love, vital for the human family to be perpetuated. When we master our appetites within the bounds of God’s laws, we can enjoy longer life, greater love, and consummate joy.